4 comments on “A Lady In The Streets and A Whore In Bed

  1. Hello! Thank you for commenting on my blog, “The Problem with NO Sex Before Marriage”…

    In reading this point of view about the lady, the Christian, and Whore I am confused. I think you may be able to tell that I am very comfortable with my sensuality and cherish intimacy.

    Intimacy and sex are not the same thing- though many people do classify them one and the same.

    I am not a Whore, and I do not think that my liberation in the bedroom is related to Whoredom.

    Actually making love is something that satisfies God too. With that said, there is a perverseness in the bedroom of Whores and those who prostitute themselves. In fact, I do not believe that they are free at all- they medicate themselves with drug addiction for example to escape reality.

    As a Christian woman with a Christian man, who is familiar with men, they want a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed. A freak is one open to do things that are satisfying in the relationship. They don’t want to misuse you- whores they want to misuse. Freak is like your actions, Whore is something they believe to characterize you. Whore they know and imagine has been with everyone, freak could mean that they think you’re doing something special just for them- or at least that you are a good girl with a bit of a surprise at home.

    I don’t think you’re being two people. As I mention in my blog, we should be able to be totally who we are in the relationship. Your freaky ways should not be something that makes you uncomfortable- it’s already a part of you. He’s not turning you into that- he just learns how to bring it out.

    The sexual relationship is not about what pleases the man- the woman should be pleased too.

    Intimacy and communication is key; when true love is present.

    • Thanks for stopping by Res. The use of the word whore was not meant to be a literal translation of someone who sells themselves. For the purpose of this blog entry, it was using the urban phrase to discuss the repressed nature of Christianity and specifically Christian women regarding their ideas on sexuality and intimacy. Freaks or whores both connote that women will explore their sexual side more than a “lady” would.

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